So after writing my post and calling my mom to get out my frustration I had a talk with Lee. I explained to him I felt that he got what he wanted by getting the kids and I back home and that he just threw everything to the side and went back to his old ways. Blah blah blah. Needless to say he grumbled for a bit but before long he was out in the garage. He did get a little bit grumpy but I was a little mouthy and firm with him. We got way more done today than before. My neighbor Donna also came over and organized my shelves, etc. She is an angel! She's also crazy because she loves organizing things. She is truly a godsend right now.
We all had to go inside because the mosquitos came out in full force. Poor Jackson had bites from his forehead to his feet. Mackenzie ended up with quite a few too. Lee said he was going to stay out there until it was all done until they began to attack him as well. Let's be honest though, he didn't really have intentions of staying out there until it is all done. I wasn't born yesterday.
So I guess I have to continue being firm about things with Lee otherwise they won't get done. I told him straight up that if because he didn't feel the need to help my mom was packing her bags to come down here and do the job he couldn't do. Of course she's not coming now but he couldn't have that happen now could he. I also told him that he got us home but if he can't pull any weight then the kids and I don't mind leaving again for what might be good. If anything this time has shown me he doesn't truly care about us or our feelings.
So my garage is 65% there. By tomorrow it should be done. Now if he can whip his butt into gear and help me with the rest of the house. Honestly if he could just got back to work and have the hours of 8-5 I could soooooooooooo much more done. I swear he makes more of a mess than the kids. If I find his food crumbs and cups and circles from the coke around his cups any where else in this house I'm going to scream. Okay enough complaining for now.
I'm off to go to sleep. Jackson is already fast asleep. His congestion has caused him to start losing his voice like I did. He sounds all congested and sick. I've got the humidifier going in my room. I don't know if it will help him but I'm trying. I figure I'll be taking him to see Dr. Allen tomorrow.
Tomorrow I will post of my adventures in Labor & Delivery today as I had my non-stress test and ultra sound. Such fun.
Monday, November 03, 2008
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